Dating man moroccan
Submitted by Relieved " X " (Jordan), Apr 28, 2012 at I decided to write my story to celebrate one year of freedom and happiness following a four year relationship with a scamming con-man !!
During a months tour in Morocco (2007) I met what would seem to be "charming Moroccan man " , a waiter in a well known rooftop terrace bar in Essaouira (Morocco), walking me to my hotel and requested my tel number , offering me assistance ıe general information , translation etc , from that day the text messages started , pls meet me in cafe , how God had brought me into his life ,we were specially chosen to be together , he even travelled to Agadir and Marrakech during that month just to meet me on his Sunday off from work , brought me some handcrafted gifts.. finally pleading for me to pls return to Morocco as we were so meant to be together which I dıd several tımes within the following six month period , I stayed approx a month at a time with him in not too glamorous back street apartments as you cannot stay in a reputable hotel with a local man if you are not married to him .
Anyway from this point on I just take it for what it is which is a relationship that isn't steady but gives me what I need right now.
Well the other night as he's leaving my house he says "bye, I love you! So I start letting all the feelings that I had before come out again because now I'm thinking okay this guy is falling in love with me.
He talked about marriage immediately as he advised ıt would be necessary if we wanted to be together in Morocco , he made it quite clear that he didn't really want to leave his country and as salaries were so little we would need to have our own business ıe small hotel or restaurant etc if we wanted to have good life style , so we viewed many properties etc for commercial and residential purposes...you would think if someone was offering a "business partnership " that they would have substantial amount of money to contribute , but not in this case !!!
I agreed to look into the prospect of marriage and that meant I should be introduced to the family(I was now termed as his chosen one ) , family seemed to be very nice , his mother never failed to mention marriage and on one occasion thrust a dress into my hands ..
he advised me she wanted me to wear this on our wedding day and that I should be considering to do it very soon !!!