Am looking for a good dating site
Well, this is a dating site like you said so what do they expect? The only ones who say they are looking for friends are just looking for the long road to get into a woman's pants."You're right.
I have, in fact, met some really good friends off here, and clearly spell out that I'm not looking for anything more both in my profile and any conversations I have with other fishies. Looking for or offering "friends" or "lets just be friends" or "friends first" usually (and always online) = "I want to control and dictate the relationship. No matter what I maintain the self image that I am a good person, doing good altruistic things, an innocent hiding behind the shield of the word friend."If a woman is just looking for "friends", its an out.
I have an idea of how you are supposed to behave, and how I want you to behave. But it's too much work to actually communicate them so I will just use the handy word of "friend" which really has no meaning by itself, only what I define it as. If she dates you and doesnt like you she can always pull the "I have always said I wanted to be friends"...
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. Honestly, who in this day and age just comes onto a DATING site to meet just a friend? Not to sound like a homophobe, but if a guy came to me on a dating site, looking to be my friend, I'd probably doubt his intentions would be legit.
If a guy tells you he just wants to be friends, it means he got what he wanted (or was wrong in his choice) and he's done with you.
We have no desire for those who are looking for those thing to contact us.